“I know it’s Haram but, I love Him!!”

This is the answer that some sisters give when
they tell them that having a boyfriend is Haram in
Islam. So this is a message for everyone of them:
“Dear Sister, a Muslimah should only love the man
she will accept to marry because of his
commitment to his deen! The more he will be
closer to Allah, the more she should love him. This
should be her main attraction. A man that fears
his Lord will think twice before bringing destruction
your way.
Now What about you? Why do you love him? Is it
because of his sweet love words? Be certain that
they are nothing but shaytan's whispers!! Is it
because of his promises of marriage? If he really
wants you, he would be a real man and come to
your house to ask for your hand in marriage. If he
is a real man, he would approach your wali not
you!!
Have you ever asked yourself if he truly loves you?
Because if he truly does, then he wouldn’t let you
face hell!! True love is when you pray to be
gathered in Jannah with the one you love! That’s
true love, and it only comes with Halal, after
marriage!
Have you ever asked yourself if he would let his
sister have a boyfriend? A real Muslim man would
have jealousy on his Maharim (his mother, sister,
wife…) and if he has no Jealousy, so he is
“dayouth” as Prophet Mohammad (sallaAllahu
alaihi wa sallam) described this type of man! If he
would let his sister have a boyfriend, then you will
know his true value, but if he would refuse to let
her have a boyfriend then you will know your true
value in his sight!!
Dear Sister, know that no matter how much he
“loves” you in this Dunya , he will hate you 1000
times more than that in the Akhirah.
YES!! He will HATE you, he will blame you for your
relationship when he will be between the Hands of
Allah, and he will beg for you to be thrown into the
fire instead of him!
Allah says in Qur’an: "Al Akhillaa (Friends/the
lovers who had forbidden relationships) on that
Day will be foes one to another(they will be like
enemies) except Al-Muttaqun (the ones who feared
Allah)" ( 43:67)
Is that the kind of love you want? A temporary
feeling you get in Dunya, a feeling inspired by
Shaytan which turn to hate in Akhirah?!!
My dear sisters, please wake up before it’s too
late, you still have time to make things right, leave
this Haram relationship right now! Leave it for the
sake of Allah. Wallahi the price HE will grant you
will be greater than you have ever thought or can
ever imagine. Just make that step today before
tomorrow!
Lastly brothers and sisters please share this
message on your wall, it can help many
In'Shaa'Allah.