8 Things Which Strengthen Your Marriage

1) Heve a Good Attitude to your wife: -
A Muslim must always have a positive attitude
toward life. We say, "Al Hamdulillah" (Praise be to
Allah) for whatever He gives us (or doesn't give
us).
2) Help Your wife: -
Our prophet, peace be upon him, stressed the
importance of men helping their wives and Allah
tells us the importance of women being mates and
helpers to their husbands. This is a real "win-win"
situation, if we just follow it. The Sunnah.
3) Trust Your Wife :-
Muslims, men and women are ordered to be
trustworthy and follow the example of our prophet,
peace be upon him, as the "Trustworthy".
4) Respect Your wife : -
You get respect, when you give respect. This is
mandatory for all
Muslims toward all people, how much more toward
the spouse?
5) Joy Your wife: -
Our prophet, peace be upon him, used to entertain
his wife, Ayesha and she used to play and race
with him. She said, "I used to out-run him, but
then when I got heavy he used to outrun me". He
told us to play with our wives.
6) Forgive your wife : -
Clearly, this is one of the most important aspects
of Islam. Whoever does not forgive - will not be
forgiven. This comes from Allah, Himself. We must
learn to forgive each other's mistakes so we won't
it against us.
7) Give a Time To your wife: -
Spend time, alone - together. Go for walks. Take a
bus ride. Visit a friend or someone who is ill (you
get big rewards for that). Fast together on
Mondays & Thursdays if you can. Make hajj - this
is a great way to get a "new start" on life. Trust
me.
8) Worship Allah together : -
Connection with Allah through ritual of prayer,
petition and peace while moving together in the
salat is something a non-Muslim can never really
appreciate. Our prophet, peace be upon him, used
to lead his wife in salat, even though he lived
connected to the mosque. He told us not to make
our homes like grave yards. We should offer some
of our sunnah prayers at home. A sister gains the
most rewards at home, in her room, behind a
screen.