1) The Patient: The woman who remains patient in
all circumstances, and never whines, moans and
complains. When some trouble or affliction hits her,
she turns to Allah for help.
2) The Protector: The woman who protects her
husband’s wealth & her chastity when he is away
from home. When he returns , she does not burden
him with the day’s problems, but listens attentively
to his needs and does her best to take his
tiredness away.
3) The Lover: The women who adores her husband,
beautifies herself for him & craves for his children
to the extent that whenever her husband glances at
her, duaa pours for her from the bottom of his
heart.
4) The Good Do-er: The women who has an
excellent reputation in society – for being kind,
caring & courteous. She is good with her
neighbours & relatives & never backbites or
displays jealousy.
5) The Content: The women who never casts her
eyes at material things and is content with
whatever little her husband gives her. She is
thankful to him for every morsel that he feeds her,
every clothe that he gifts her, including the roof
over her head. She makes her gratefulness known
to him in words & action and thus, soothes her
husband’s heart.
6) The Pious: The women who spends much of her
day in dhikr, reading the Quran & Salaah and her
nights in praying tahajjud & crying to Allah for
forgiveness. She encourages her husband to give
daw’ah in his spare time.
7) The Sweet Smiler: The woman who smiles
excessively, especially when her husband is at
home. She always talks gently that it seems that
pearls are dripping from her mouth. She never
raises her voice while talking to her husband. If her
husband is angry with her for some reason &
shouts at her, she does not answer him back but
maintains a dignified silence. When he has calmed
down , she offers him cool water & apologizes to
him even if she wasn’t at fault.
May Allah bless the Muslim women with these
characteristics, and bless the men with wives like
this.Ameen
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