Some really good advice for a successful marriage given by a teacher at a wedding. He said these are the T's of a successful marriage.
T Is for Taqwa - the foundation of a successful marriage. Fearing Allah allows both parties to live in harmony.
T is for Trust - don't allow any room for your spouse to doubt you and give them some personal space.
T is for Tongue - control your tongue when speaking to your spouse. Don't speak rudely.
T is for Talk - Communicate with your spouse regularly. Let them know your feelings.
T is for Time - make time to spend with your spouse, and realise that your life timetable has to change once you're married.
T is for Tea - make sure you eat and drink together at the same time as this creates love between 2 people.
T is for Tolerance - nobody is perfect, but look at the good qualities in your spouse and tolerate the bad with patience.
T is for Technology - technology can make or break a relationship. Don't allow it to become the third person in the relationship.
T is for Trouble makers - don't allow the rumours and comments of others spoil the harmony between you and your partner.
T is for Temper - this is one of biggest reasons behind marriages breaking. Control your anger with your spouse.
T is for Tahajjud - wake up in the night for Tahajjud and even pray together, and encourage each other to do good deeds.
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