Gathered by: Abu Mardiy Kewdirôrun At-thaqoofiy
My Dear Sister, chatting with Non-Mah'ram men privately is harmful for you.
Please don't get me wrong!
There is nothing wrong with a Muslim woman making use of the internet and entering WhatsApp, Facebook, 2go and other chat rooms.
So long as that does not lead to anything that is forbidden in Islaam, such as talking privately with men.
That is because talking to men may turn into chat which usually leads temptation.
Hence it is essential to be strict and avoid that, seeking the pleasure of Allaah and fearing His punishment.
How often have these conversations lead to bad results, and even caused people to fall in love, and have led some to do things that are even more serious than that.
The Shaytaan makes each of them imagine attractive qualities in other, which leads them to develop an attachment that detrimental to their spiritual welfare and worldly affairs.
Sharee’ah blocks all the ways that may lead to fitnah (temptation, trial), hence it forbids softness of speech and does not allow a man to be alone with a non mahram woman.
Undoubtedly these private chats are not regarded as khulwah in the sense that he people involved cannot see one another, but they are one of the greatest causes of fitnah as is well known.
My Dear Sister!
Fear Allaah, and do not speak to Non-Mah'ram men.
This is safer for your religious commitment and purer for your heart.
You should note that marriage to a righteous man is a blessing from Allaah, and a blessing cannot be acquired by means of sin.
May Almighty Allaah bless our Sisters with righteous husbands.
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