Are you in love ?

You think these haram relationships are so awesome eh?!�� This is mainly for the people who kinda just, recently shot a text, Email &  somebody just texted em back, & a little facebook thing happened; a lil wink ��& smile ��in the playground or in the class at school or college or work; even though it's separate, just in the recess or break time you saw each other & this silly things happened.All of this is a product of low self-esteem.You(girls/women) think you're ugly or whatever & so if a guy thinks you're cute, you go at him like "wow, really, I'm cute?!" You think nobody is gonna like you, nobody's gonna marry you & all that stuff.On the other hand them guys, just because you have raging hormones & your day dreaming about girls, & things like that; it doesn't mean that you're in love.It just means that you haven't controlled your temptations yet‼️& you're ruining somebody's life & their entire family❗️Do you realize what you're doing❓�� & you call it love❓❓��you tell me( it's for both brothers& sisters) if he/she you like was like 50lbs fatter, would you still be in love❓Because he/she is the same person,has same ruh inside her body, if he/she was a burnt victim or something, if his/her hand burnt off, If her/his leg was missing, would you still be in love? Or you find somebody else to love, all of a sudden. & if you can't answer that question, then honestly, come on you're not in love, you're just hormonal.Thats all you are.This is what we have done to relationships, that are supposed to be beautiful.Marriage is suppose to be beautiful relationships. Its suppose to be lifelong relationship. But because you're watching all of these models on TV & stupid plastic actress/actor or whatever them filthy females/males you watch���� women that are just throwing ��themselves at men & all that stuff & you've developed this delusional concept of what it means to have love in your life! Our deen came to free the world from this nonsense, cuz we have more mature understanding of what it means to have love in your life.I'm not saying you shouldn't marry someone you like.you should! You should be attracted to future spouse!!